When friends talk, but they don't...

[kjdama]

DS's friends are starting to talk about sex and make sexual remarks, which I over hear and get angry about, but DS claims he doesn't say that or tries to get them to stop saying that sort of stuff... I don't know what I believe though. He does hang out with a few 11 and 12 yo's so I know that they are starting to talk about it more and more...

DH doesn't think that he should know about that stuff yet... but if DS's friends are already making comments... *sigh* I have no idea!!!

[sandijv]

Luckily my ds is still very embarrased...but some of these kids here..UGH...I think I may ask  my DH for input, but he wasn't that way when he was younger (his upbringing..very strict)
Maybe if you ask him what he would do if it was his SISTER they were talking about. Just remind him that when they say stuff about a girl that it is SOMEBODY'S sister, daughter, or mom. That may get him to think before he gets into that stage.
I know with my NOW 16 yo DD, I toldher when she was much younger, if she wouldn't do or say it in front of me..then she probably shouldnt be doing it at all!!!

[bestest mom]

I agree with Sandy.  You also want to make sure he's armed with "correct" info, ya' know?  YOU or DH may want to discuss things with him rather than have him get his info from "the boys"!  If they are starting to discuss already, you don't them feeding him all garbage talk.